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We learn who we are and experience who we are through the mind of another

Together, we can re-create how you see and experience yourself in the world through the eyes of imagined Ideal Parent Figures who are perfectly suited to you

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Hi! I'm Hai Van

MAMA

GARDENER

MYSTIC

INFJ

I see healing attachment patterns and relationships as both science and art. Growing up as a first-generation refugee from Vietnam, I was the golden child slated to become a research scientist. Instead, after graduating from Harvard with a degree in biochemistry, I went to culinary school at a local community college. As life is not a linear path, I went on to study nutrition and dietetics, completing my training at a top internship with the Veterans Administration Hospital in San Diego, and then worked as an outpatient dietitian for Kaiser Permanente.

 

Where I am now is diametrically opposed to where I was expected to be by family and culture, so I'm a bit of a rebel. While I have grown up planted in science and evidence, I am embracing my intuitive creativity and spirituality as I blossom. I enjoy Ideal Parent Figure (IPF) work as a co-creative and collaborative process as it was designed to be. I see it also as a spiritual work that heals us both individually and inter-generationally. 

Services

Ideal Parent Figure is a facilitated process used to develop a new internal working model based on secure attachment.

Ideal Parent Figure Facilitation

Relationships and exploration are what make our lives meaningful. Insecure relationships require more energy to maintain. Create a secure internal working model using Ideal Parent Figure to improve your relationship with self and others and to free up energy for meaningful exploration.

Betrayal Trauma Coaching for individuals and couples

Betrayal Trauma Coaching

Move towards recovery and healing from intimate betrayal wherever you are. Betrayal creates disorganization and confusion. Mitigate crisis and navigate through the recovery process with more clarity while receiving compassionate and pragmatic support as the betrayer, betrayed, or as a couple.

Exploring Family of Origin Work

Adult Attachment Interview and Family of Origin Work

The Adult Attachment Interview is the gold standard in assessing attachment patterns. Dive into family of origin work using an attachment-focused approach and start the process towards developing a coherent narrative.

Work with Hai Van

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